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Do you know why your clients stay stuck?

When trauma hits us or we experience relational wounding, we can feel utterly disconnected… staying small, isolated and alone…fearful and helpless. We don’t always have the language to ask for what we need, especially if we fear we’ll be met with additional hurt or anger.

And if that pain continues long enough – where we can’t communicate or see real progress, we stay stuck…or worse, we give up.

As therapists, it’s supposed to be our job to support and guide our clients toward a healthy relationship, so they can experience a deeper level of trust, intimacy and mutual connection.

After all, we started our careers with a deep desire to help people. Most of us had a reasonable expectation that we were going to be able to change lives and free clients from their past wounds.

To us, there’s nothing worse than when we can’t be that catalyst our clients desperately need.

The truth is that trauma can overwhelm even the best of us, so that we can’t function normally, causing us to lose trust in our feelings, thoughts - even our bodies.
Many times, we don’t have the exact language to use based on individual Attachment Styles

Our clients often come to us at their lowest, sometimes hoping against hope, that you will be the one to help them save the relationship, to restore it back to what it should be…to what they want it to be.

And when you’re working with two people in a relationship that’s already dysfunctional or broken, the stakes seem even higher. You must get it right.

But what can we say or do to help people emerge from incredible loss, fear and powerlessness to empower them to recover their aliveness and well-being?

The hard reality is that, even though many of us have poured countless hours and hard-earned money into traditional education, additional training courses or devouring all kinds of research studies, books and articles…

….we’re often missing a way to take all that theoretical knowledge and learning and apply it to our clinical work – we need the kinds of skills, interventions and techniques that can be individualized to any relational therapy.

What if you could draw from Attachment Theory to help clients heal from trauma and restore intimacy?

Imagine a couple sitting across from you in your office, talking about the latest conflict in their relationship. One partner is clearly angry, aggressive, lashing out and taking a minor incident and blowing it out of proportion.

The other partner shrinks into her seat and edges slightly away from the conversation…arms crossed… visibly recoiling at every harsh word. She’s clearly hurt, confused and feeling alone.

As their therapist, you can see what’s going on. But just seeing it isn’t enough.
What are your clients really reacting to? How can you get to the bottom of it in a way that’s safe for both partners – and honors the way they need to be heard?

More importantly, do you know how to help them heal the wounds beneath this dysfunctional behavior, so the couple can break the cyclical pattern once and for all?

Research suggests that as much as 90% of conflict and issues that arise in adult relationships can be traced back to early Attachment experiences.

Not only does Attachment Theory give us a framework to understand how the past has shaped our present relationships, it gives us an approach to use to do something about it.

All of us are capable of repairing broken connections. But our clients can’t do it alone, because, as humans, we’re not wired to heal in isolation.

The good news is that Diane’s powerful, proven and pragmatic DARe (Dynamic Attachment Repatterning Experience) Approach gives you the concrete tools to help your clients change deep-rooted patterns and bring couples into a healthy, secure way of relating to each other.

You can do all this using a proven framework that helps you improve your clinical skills and gives you practical tools and language you can apply to your work immediately
Everyone Is Capable of Healing
Before we can help clients form deeper connections, we have to get a couple of things out of the way first...

Whether you’re just starting out, or an advanced practitioner, many of us hold on to common beliefs or practices that may block us – or at the very least, limit our ability to help clients restore the trust, security and confidence of a healthy relationship.

Through no fault of our own, these common misconceptions or old habits stay with us, and can hinder our work to prevent us from being as effective for our clients as they desperately need us to be.

And that can leave us feeling as helpless and stuck as the very people we’re trying to help.

Misconceptions like…

I already work with individuals... isn’t working with couples the same thing... you’re just adding another individual to the mix?

When you’re working with couples or people in dysfunctional relationships, the stakes immediately get higher than when you’re just working with one individual.

Unlike individual therapy, you’re quickly forced to navigate the nuances and Attachment Styles of entirely different people – who come to you with their own past wounds and deep traumas.

And yet, so much of traditional training only teaches us how to support and guide one individual at a time. We don’t always have the framework to know what works time and time again, so we can move our clients forward more quickly, securely and compassionately.

There is a better, more gratifying and enjoyable way to work with clients…that not only allows you to be fully present and collaborative…but also fosters true connection and love on a deeply human level – for both individuals and couples.

Instead, you need:
  • Know how the different Attachment Style combinations can cause conflict - and what you can do to intervene and begin to reframe conversations to diffuse further agitation and issues
  • Recognize the language, patterns, and behaviors of each Attachment Style and know how to identify how early childhood trauma and patterning now affect adult relationships
  • Learn which language and phrases empower our clients and how we can avoid triggers that may cause additional harm
Instead, you need:
  • Know how the different Attachment Style combinations can cause conflict - and what you can do to intervene and begin to reframe conversations to diffuse further agitation and issues
  • Recognize the language, patterns, and behaviors of each Attachment Style and know how to identify how early childhood trauma and patterning now affect adult relationships
  • Learn which language and phrases empower our clients and how we can avoid triggers that may cause additional harm
I already understand Attachment Theory and I have my preferred methods, so I don’t need additional interventions or corrective experiences.

In a relationship, both partners come to you with their own unique (and shared) problems – including a combination of potentially conflicting Attachment Styles and unhealed wounds.

Because of this, relationships are simply too dynamic and multifaceted to say there is a ‘one size fits all’ solution. What helps heal one relationship may not work for the next.

And when we limit our treatment options or stay inflexible (most often due to our own limiting self- doubts or fears), we may try to fit every clinical solution to our preferred method. And that’s not what our clients need for better outcomes.

That’s why, in this course, we’re not going to burden or overwhelm you by simply adding more interventions and corrective experiences to your arsenal without putting them into the proper context.

At every step of the way, we show you how to incorporate new tools, skills and interventions, so that your therapy sessions are hyper-specific and individualized for your clients’ unique needs.

Instead, you need:
  • Innovative interventions and skills you can teach clients so they can get to the root of their problems once and for all, begin healing deep wounds and have the confidence to navigate everyday life confidently
  • A systematic framework from which you can formulate phrases and language to establish a trusting and safe environment from which clients can begin to heal and connect more deeply to others
  • Proven and pragmatic techniques that empower you to adjust and tailor therapy to best honor each partner’s specific needs, so you can restore healing and intimacy in ANY relationship
  • Actual client demos to show the work in action
Instead, you need:
  • Actual client demos to show the work in action
  • A systematic framework from which you can formulate phrases and language to establish a trusting and safe environment from which clients can begin to heal and connect more deeply to others
  • Proven and pragmatic techniques that empower you to adjust and tailor therapy to best honor each partner’s specific needs, so you can restore healing and intimacy in ANY relationship
  • Access to real client demos
Hi, I’m Dr. Diane Poole Heller

Welcome. I want to share with you a life-changing online training program I’m now offering, called, ‘Attachment Strategies for Adult Relationships.’

When you join me – in a thriving online community of practitioners and colleagues – we’ll explore the topic of Attachment within the context of your clients’ relationships and Attachment Styles, sharing our collective knowledge, experiences and insights along the way.

At the end, I’m confident this program will help you identify your clients’ Attachment Style and understand their challenges, so you know exactly which language to use for each Attachment adaptation and how to apply specific corrective experiences to help your clients heal from the wounds of early trauma.

This is the course I wish had been available to me when I first started working with clients in difficult or broken relationships. Our work as therapists gets so much easier and productive when we really understand how to use Attachment in both individual and couples therapy.

If you’re new to the study of Attachment, this course gives you a strong foundation and extends the work you already do with individuals to couples. And if working with Attachment (or another method) is already a part of your practice, I promise you’ll significantly develop and expand your understanding of Attachment in relationships to master the practical tools and compassionate framework you need to navigate even the most difficult relationships.

I know that if you’re here, you want to be of the highest service to your clients…and as therapists, we are most successful when we can understand what is going on inside our clients, so that we can best help them.

It is my mission to help you master the language of Attachment Theory and provide the training you need to put these profoundly powerful tools and interventions into practice…so you can better help clients navigate the ever- shifting complexities and nuances of relationship and move them toward an enhanced capacity for Secure Attachment.

I hope you’ll join me on our learning journey. Together, we can start a revolution of relationship healing!

Securely yours,

Dr. Diane Poole Heller
Founder, Trauma Solutions
Author, The Power of Attachment

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Don’t miss your chance to take this foundational course that’s only offered once a year!
Registration closes March 31, 2020 at 11:59 PST.
“Filled with wise guidance based on decades of clinical experience and scientific training, Dr. Poole Heller provides a wealth of clear, practical tools that anyone can use to improve their relationships and enrich their lives. With warmth, honesty, and a gift for teaching, she weaves together insights from Attachment research, neurobiology, and life experience to provide easy-to-use tools to connect more deeply to others and heal our hearts and minds in the process—creating a valuable resource for us all.”

Ronald D. Siegel, PsyD, Assistant Professor of Psychology at Harvard Medical School Author of The Mindfulness Solution: Everyday Practices for Everyday Problems

Dr. Diane Poole Heller presents...
Attachment Strategies for Adult Relationships
An 8-week online course for therapists, life coaches and mental professionals.
How to help our clients heal from traumatic experiences, return to Secure Attachment and move into deeper and more intimate relationships.
Here's What's Included

6 Video Training Modules

Each week, you’ll get access to a module that takes you through a practical and proven approach to foster a healthy relational space so we can help our clients heal and thrive.

• Module 1: Building a Foundation of Secure Attachment

• Module 2: Creating Safe Haven, Trust, Boundaries & Regulation

• Module 3: Attachment and Needs: Secure, Avoidant & Ambivalent

• Module 4: Attachment and Needs: Disorganized

• Module 5: Coming Back to the Present: Working with Encapsulated Child States, Memory & Dissociation

• Module 6: Developing Secure Attachment Skills in Relationships

8 Live Interactive Workshops with Q&A Sessions

Each week, you and your colleagues join Diane (and our bonus expert) for live calls to review the week’s teachings. At the end of the calls, there’s always time for your questions and answers.

Can’t attend live? All calls are recorded and posted to the private member area within 48 hours.

Written Transcripts of the Online Training Videos in the Program

All training videos are accompanied by transcripts, because we know some people prefer not only to watch material, but also to have the written copy on hand.

Download the transcripts and use them for reference and note-taking.

Access to a Private Online Therapist Member Community

You’ll join a warm, friendly and encouraging online community that supports you while you support others.

Discuss difficult cases, share your feelings, or tell us about your frustrations and wins.

"Diane’s demos are amazing. They are the most powerful and rewarding learning experience for being present with clients and also amazingly healing personally. It is true, as Diane says, that if Attachment and Trauma are present, Attachment issues need to be addressed first — safety and recovery from that are so helpful for the rest of the work."
Nina Allred, Sandy Hook CT
Here’s What’s In the Training Curriculum
MODULE 1
Building a Foundation of
Secure Attachment

Every client is ‘pre-programmed’ to create and maintain attachments with others. Helping clients return to Secure Attachment is simply a matter of breaking it down into teachable skills.

In this module, you’ll learn techniques clients can take out of therapy and apply to everyday life:

  • Learn how to bring out the Secure Attachment everyone has inside, even when it’s buried deep within due to trauma
  • Empower clients with practical tools they can use to return to Secure Attachment when insecure patterns get re-triggered
  • Bust the 4 Myths of Secure Attachment that prevent therapists and couples from returning to Secure Attachment
  • Gain a clear understanding of how early Attachment affects adult relationships
  • Discover how 'contingency, or the feeling of being understood', can help heal relationships
  • Identify our own blind spots as therapists and recognize small moments of connection to create more impact
  • Grow your skillset with clinical interventions and corrective experiences that help heal early bonding wounds and nourish a healthy Attachment System
MODULE 2
Creating Save Haven, Trust, Boundaries & Regulation

Fear makes it biologically impossible for clients to improve their relationships. In order to create safety for clients in your sessions, you must first establish a foundation for trust.

In this module, you’ll learn practical ways to establish a safe haven, so you can teach clients to create a safe holding environment for each other outside the therapy office:

  • Learn how to bring your clients out of their automatic threat response and help them to avoid falling back into it
  • Apply new techniques immediately to build trust in any adult relationship - including the client/therapist relationship
  • Exercises your client can do that allow you to assess ‘signal cries’ quickly and formulate a plan to honor that cry
  • See actual case examples that show you how to interpret physical positioning and reaching-out responses, so you can dig down to the root of the issue and facilitate deep healing
  • Discover which secure attachment skills to use before, during and after a session to help clients feel comfortable, safe and secure
  • Identify how to track your own and your client’s experiences simultaneously during sessions, so you can stay fully present and focused in the moment
MODULE 3
Attachment and Needs Part 1: Secure, Avoidant & Ambivalent

The health of a relationship depends on how your client relates to their own needs and the needs of their partner.

In this module, you’ll explore the ways that Secure, Avoidant and Ambivalent Attachment Styles affect different clients’ needs, so you can tailor your approach and have the right language for each specific style:

  • Help clients with each Attachment style communicate their own needs so their partner can hear them, to quickly recognize and meet their needs
  • Resolve the common relationship problems of the frequent pairing of an Avoidant-Fearful or Dismissive and an Ambivalent-Preoccupied
  • Help Ambivalent-Preoccupied clients recognize and receive their partners’ affection so they don’t feel unloved
  • Identify what Secure Attachment looks like in a relationship
  • Create relationship security for an Avoidant/Ambivalent pair by teaching them how to overcome their core relationship challenges
  • Enhance the strengths that each Attachment style brings to the relationship
  • Teach new communication skills to help Avoidant and Ambivalent partners avoid conflict and better understand one another
MODULE 4
Attachment and Needs Part 2: Disorganized

Unpredictable feelings and behaviors make working with Disorganized Attachment in a relationship particularly challenging. The natural impulses to connect and to protect often become entangled, causing confusion, dysregulation and conflict.

In this module, you’ll gain a deeper understanding on how to help clients heal so they can enjoy deep, long-term intimacy:

  • Uncover the origin of Disorganized Attachment and how it shows up in relationships
  • Identify why some people have inexplicable fear responses toward romantic partners as intimacy deepens
  • Help clients distinguish between their present relationships and when they’re being triggered by past experiences
  • Help clients access mature functioning by healing Encapsulated Child states
  • Know exactly how to intervene when closeness triggers clients into fear or disconnect
  • Untangle the Avoidant and Ambivalent tendencies of Disorganized Attachment
  • Conduct interventions for Disorganized Attachment in relationships and teach clients to mutually balance awareness of each other’s needs
MODULE 5
Coming Back to the Present: Working with Encapsulated Child States, Memory & Dissociation

Helping your clients heal means getting to the root of the relationship problems.

In this module, we zero in on the core wounds that create Attachment patterns in the first place — and then we show you healing techniques you can apply to help clients move away from staying stuck in the past.

  • Offer immediate relief from trauma symptoms in the very first session
  • Set the proper pace for healing trauma, help clients with dissociation - and know what to say to avoid causing additional trauma and harm
  • Help clients create distance from dangerous behaviors and ‘freeze-frame’ threats
  • Move clients away from passive threat reactions toward active self-protective responses
  • Reassemble and integrate fragmented memories of traumatic events
  • Set up a healing relationship between the client and their own Encapsulated Child states
  • Work with highly reactive clients to heal the trauma underneath, so they can have the skills to feel a sense of safety, learn to self-regulate and go from arousal to relief
MODULE 6
Developing Secure Attachment Skills in Relationships

Once you have all the fundamental knowledge, you’re ready to incorporate new skills, techniques and interventions to help your clients build healthier relationships.

In this module, you’ll see what a healthy relationship should look like on an everyday basis, what can stand in the way – and most importantly, how to help clients return to Secure Attachment.

  • Use the Attachment perspective on ‘co-dependence’ and ‘inter-dependence’ in relationships to help clients heal
  • Balance Attachment with autonomy and differentiation
  • Help single clients find a good partner match for their Attachment style, even in the initial ‘love is blind’ haze of a new relationship
  • Navigate the tricky, vulnerable period when Avoidant clients first start to heal and help them to engage in the therapy process.
  • Utilize the way the brain stores memory to minimize an argument’s long-term effect on a relationship
  • Stop clients from returning to abusive relationships — and help them break the pattern of what keeps pulling them back in
  • Know how to find different ways of closure (completion, quick exit, anger, clinginess) to bring clients back into Secure Attachment
Continuing Education (CE) Option
Do you need CE credits?

As part of a joint sponsorship with Commonwealth Educational Seminars (CES), you can earn 22 CE credit hours for this program, for an additional fee of $69.

Program credit can be awarded for the following professionals:

• Licensed Professional Counselors (MUST attend live calls to be eligible)
• Licensed Clinical Social Workers
• Marriage and Family Therapists
• Psychologists

A Certificate of Completion is available to all participants at the end of the course (upon request) at no additional charge

For detailed information regarding CEs, please visit:
https://dianepooleheller.com/ce/information

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"This training helped me frame therapeutic work, not only within an individual but all the way into large systems - the organization. All the world over, we are affected by our abilities and disabilities to connect. This work helps you learn how to heal and re-form connections at any level...within ourselves, our families, even our workplaces, so we can be our best, solo or together."
L.S. Arroyo, Grande CA
In Addition to the In-Depth 8-Week Training Program,
You’ll Also Receive FIVE Valuable Bonuses:
BONUS ONE (a $297 value)
Two Training Calls with Patti Elledge
A leading Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner (SEP) and DARe teacher who’s specialized in the therapeutic application of neuroscience for over 40 years
Bonus Topic 1: How Attachment Styles Interact in Adult Relationships

• Learn how to quickly identify Attachment Styles – plus, tips to help each individual navigate conflicts as they arise

• See how Avoidant + Avoidant Couples differ from Avoidant + Ambivalent Couples

• Understand what happens when a relationship goes from ‘electrifying to terrifying,’ because one partner has a history of Disorganized Attachment and needs help navigating the new sense of closeness

• Gain an in-depth neurobiological understanding of each Attachment Style

Bonus Topic 2: Recordings of Live Demos / Q&A

‘Be in the room’ virtually with Demos using strategies for developing a greater sense of emotional regulation and connectivity:

• Looking At/Looking Away Treatment Strategy

• Repairing Missed Connection and the importance of re-establishing safety

• Left-to-Left Processing vs Right-to-Right Connection and when to use meaning-making and talking vs attunement and resonance

• Tracking self and how to follow a person’s body cues as to what is happening real-time (in your session)

• Recordings of Live Demos / participant Q&A

BONUS TWO (a $997 value)
Access to the Couples Therapy Summit on Relationships, Trauma, Attachment & Neuroscience with Experts Terry Real, Stan Tatkin, Ellyn Bader, and more
Includes full recordings of a 3-day conference with OVER 18 hours of teaching, demos, panels, and conversations between Diane and pioneering experts in therapy

You’ll also get access to all recordings, transcripts and special bonuses in this very special workshop focused on neuroscience and its influence on forming Secure Attachment in all relationships: personal, professional and romantic.

Therapists who work with individuals and couples will especially benefit from this bonus offering, as it helps you integrate all your previous trainings in the field.

Grow your confidence and enhance your skills as you gain mastery in applying Attachment and Trauma Resolution with clients:

• Learn from experts and gain immediate techniques to help clients develop health, love and relationship skills

• Live demos for each Attachment adaptation as they manifest in various relationship settings

• How to provide difficult, but necessary, feedback to clients while effectively maintaining your support role

• Discussion panels featuring participant case studies for immediate benefit in your practice

• Techniques to assist clients in developing interdependence in relationships

• The role of the nervous system in Attachment regulation

• Methods to wire the brain for love and contentment

Stan Tatkin, PhD, MFT
We Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection and Enduring Love

• Learn the difference between secure functioning and Secure Attachment

• How to promote secure functioning

• What the ‘automatic brain’ is and what implications it has for pair-bonding

• What are ‘deal breakers’, how to sweep for and then manage them

• How to apply PACT interview tools

• What interventions look like in couples therapy

Terry Real, LICSW
The Crisis in Masculinity: How to Engage, Understand and Transform Male Clients

• Learn how to engage men (particularly difficult ones) in therapy

• How to get buy-in from both partners

• How to help men move beyond defensiveness and truly confront their difficult traits and behaviors

• How to enlist the functional adult self into an alliance

• How to work together through chaos

• How to teach couples to be honest about each other’s shortcomings in a way that brings them together

Ellyn Bader, PhD
Working with Infidelity: Dealing with Crisis and Repairing the Relationship

• Help couples manage the intense feelings of betrayal after an affair

• Understand the 3 stages of treatment

• Learn the role of obsession and which specific treatment techniques increase accountability

• Assess the meaning of an affair and the type of deception involved

• Navigate the final treatment stage

• How to untangle the couple’s enmeshment and identify each partner’s individual issues

BONUS THREE (a $297 value)
Two LIVE Interactive Sessions with Alicen Halquist
A leading psychotherapist, consultant and DARe teacher specializing in Trauma Repair and SE Integration

As a Master of Somatic Psychology, Alicen has been trained in Psychobiological Therapy by Stan Tatkin. Alicen has 23 years of experience facilitating and assisting in the training of the Somatic Experiencing model through the Foundation of Human Enrichment (FHE, formerly SETI).

She’s also had extensive experience with Diane’s DARe model and is an Adjunct Faculty in the Graduate Somatic Psychology program at Naropa University.

Alicen’s approach integrates deep mindfulness and is informed by Eastern philosophy, her own personal meditation practice, yoga, dance/creative arts therapy – and the belief that by healing trauma, we all can have direct access to spiritual expansion.

Bonus Session 1: Dating: No Longer a Fishing Expedition (Hoping You Catch the Big One)

• How to attract a partner who’s easier for your specific Attachment adaptation

• Quickly identify a potential partner’s Attachment Style

• How to protect your own Secure Attachment in a new relationship

• Understanding the difference between what’s familiar to us in a partner’s Attachment style versus what would be easier on us

• How to work with Implicit Patterns to create a new blueprint for our relationships

Bonus Session 2: On the Brink: How to Get Clients (and Friends) to Move Toward Secure Attachment as Allies and Stop Destroying Their Relationships

• Learn to be an ‘ally for relationships’ as a therapist or a friend

• How to empower clients or friends to be the change that helps bring a partner closer

• Whom you should share personal information with about your relationship (and whom you should not)

• 5 simple steps that improve ALL relationships

• The single most important thing and Avoidant and Anxious Attachment style can do for their partner to create trust and security

BONUS FOUR (a $397 value)
The Advanced Attachment Client Questionnaire
Get my own in-depth questionnaires (both short and long-form) that I personally developed and use to help clients quickly determine their Attachment Style

This bonus includes TWO Attachment Style Questionnaires — a short- and long-form — plus, you’ll get private access to my online survey that helps you quickly evaluate your clients’ relationship orientation.

I’ve been developing and refining these surveys for over 20 years, using them over and over in my own work.

BONUS FIVE (a $297 value)
Attachment Styles Primer
Mini-training that includes a review of Secure Attachment and all four adaptations

• An overview of Attachment Styles and their specific wounds and gifts

• How each Attachment Style and adaptations develops in childhood through child/caretaker parenting patterns

• How each style manifests in adult relationships

• How to access clients’ original Secure Attachment in therapy

• Techniques for beginning the process of healing Attachment wounds

Ready to take the next step?
Here’s Everything You’ll Get In...
Attachment Strategies for Adult Relationships
Help clients heal from traumatic experiences and return to
Secure Attachment to form deep and lasting intimate relationships
  • 6 TRAINING MODULES: giving you an in-depth look at how to apply Attachment Theory to your clinical practice
  • 8 LIVE INTERACTIVE WORKSHOPS WITH Q&A SESSIONS: so you can access more education and get your most pressing questions answered immediately
  • DOWNLOADS, TRANSCRIPTS, WORKSHEETS, AND DEMOS: so you have access to all the resources in a variety of learning formats - and learn exactly how to apply tools and techniques to individualized interventions in a clinical setting
  • PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP: where you’ll get answers and support from me and friendly colleagues
PLUS, these special
BONUSES!
  • 2 Training Calls with Patti Elledge
  • Entire 6-Day Couples Summit (2018) Recordings with over 18-hours of videos, plus worksheets, transcripts and demos
  • 2 LIVE Interactive Sessions with Alicen Halquist
  • The Advanced Attachment Questionnaire
  • The Attachment Primer

Total Course Value: $3,997

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I so appreciate both the theory and the practice. You demonstrated and taught us so much that will help facilitate repair and re-orientation. I highly respect your work. It obviously reflects years of clinical foundation, experience, and self-healing. The Attachment wounds/repair information is truly the foundation and, as you said, the pay dirt of our work. Having the opportunity to watch you in the demonstrations accompanied by the biofeedback was truly astonishing.
P. Atkinson LCSW-R, New York
Diane’s work has enabled us to work with the tender Attachment piece, with skill, kindness, and understanding. When clients experience it, they often say something like, “This is the work I have been waiting for. No one has held it with me in quite this way.” Diane has given us a beautiful way to meet it and to begin healing the deep and early patterns of our clients and of ourselves.
Christina Morrow SEP, Connecticut
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Try the Attachment Strategies in Adult Relationship program, 100%, risk-free. If for any reason, you don’t feel it meets your needs, please contact our friendly Support Team on or before April 14, 2020 - and we’ll happily issue you a refund.
Frequently Asked Questions
Let us answer them...

Who is this program for?

This program is ideal for both novice and experienced therapists, life coaches and other mental health or behavioral professionals who work with both individuals and couples in a clinical setting – and need a pragmatic and proven approach to skillfully and lovingly guide clients back to Secure Attachment so they can experience healthy and fulfilling relationships.

Can I access the training materials once the course is over?

Of course! You get permanent, lifetime access to ALL training materials, including videos, transcripts, worksheets, exercises, demos and BONUSES too.

You can always come back to any part of the program and print or download material at any time.

Is this training the same as the DARe 2 program?

Yes. It is the online version of the DARe 2 training. DARe is our in-person, live training program, which consists of four progressive workshop modules: DARe 1, DARe 2, DARe 3, and DARe 4. DARe 1 is the foundation course on Secure and Insecure Attachment Adaptations and Patterning. Once completed, you can take the other DARe trainings in any order you wish.

This program, Attachment Strategies for Adult Relationships, (which was formerly called Secure) is an online course that’s part of the Attachment Mastery Program series where participants can earn continuing education credits.

How many CE credits can I earn for this course?

If you’re a licensed professional counselor, marriage and family therapist, or nurse – you can earn 22 CE credits upon satisfactory program completion. Please note, there is a one-time  fee of $69.

A Certificate of Completion For Professionals pertaining to each individual course is also available to all participants at the end of the course (upon request) at no additional charge.

Is this just another theoretical course?

Not at all. We’ve structured this program in such a way so we don’t just tell you how to use theoretical concepts – we show you. You’ll be able to watch actual client demo videos and participate in LIVE Q&A sessions with Diane, where she’ll answer questions and give you tips on how to apply skills and techniques to your client therapy sessions.

How much time should I spend on each Module every week?

The time most people spend varies because of individual learning styles and preferences. Most of our students tell us they spend an average of 2-3 hours per module per week outside of our 1-hour LIVE Q&A sessions.

We also encourage everyone to work at your own pace – and at the very least, join us for the interactive sessions and demos, so we can answer your questions live.

What is the DARe Certificate program?

If you are already enrolled in the DARe Certificate Program – you may take Attachment Strategies for Adult Relationships (online) to satisfy the DARe 2 requirement. Upon completion of this online training, you will still need to demonstrate mastery of the material, complete additional assessments, and attend at least one other Live DARe training.

Once a participant has completed all four modules (and fulfilled additional requirements), they receive a DARe Certificate and listing on my website as an Approved DARe Provider. As you complete each module you will receive a Certificate of Completion For Professionals pertaining to each individual course upon request.

If you’d like to know more about the DARe Certificate Program and how to apply, please visit our website at www.dianepooleheller.com.

I have more questions!

If you have more questions send us an email us at [email protected]

How Can I Benefit?
Therapists

This training program is designed to teach you how to apply theory into your practice so you can empower clients as they are in a relationship with others and help return them to Secure Attachment.

Health Practitioners & Professionals

Attachment is used by all types of health and healing professionals as one tool in an arsenal they use to help navigate relationships in a variety of settings. This course will empower you to identify and work with different Attachment Styles.

Couples

Knowing your own style and that of your partner is the starting point for healing Attachment wounds and unresolved trauma. This course will help you develop the language you need as you move the relationship back toward love and Secure Attachment.

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Attachment Strategies for Adult Relationships
All this is included in the
TRAINING PROGRAM!
  • 6 Training Modules
  • 8 LIVE Interactive Workshops with Q&A Sessions
  • Downloads, Transcripts, Worksheets and Demos
  • Private Facebook Group
PLUS, these special
BONUSES!
  • 4 Bonus Interactive Training Sessions
  • Entire Couples Therapy Summit with Diane and 6 Relationship Experts
  • The Attachment Primer
  • The Advanced Attachment Questionnaire

Total Course Value: $3,997

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What Therapists, Experts & Coaches Say
“Diane Poole Heller brings us good news - a healthy romantic relationship is attainable, despite whatever Attachment wounds we’ve survived... Diane Poole Heller’s knowledge of trauma and recovery begins with her own hard-won experience, shared here as the inspiration for her life’s work. The exercises here helped me grow in love and understanding of my own and my partner’s Attachment styles and brought us to a new level of intimacy.”

Amy Weintraub
Founder of Lifeforce Yoga
Author of Yoga Skills for Therapists and Yoga for Depression

“What I do appreciate is what you model in your wholeness of all you are in what you do – The teaching, the business of it that you have created and promote, your thoroughness with all the information you provide, the organization and time of it all that you put in place with the support you provide, not only for all those taking the workshop but for yourself so you can do what you do best with apparent ease, and your inclusiveness of your team and all of us.”

S. Gross, Boulder CO

“A privilege to be in Diane’s presence and exposed to the experience she organized for us. I experienced surprising insights, learning, and inspiration during this training; I have lots of experience with leaders and teachers. Diane manifests love of people, good humor, professionalism; her skill, generosity and humility are refreshing and make me feel deeply appreciative. Thanks to Diane and her circle.”

Bob Barett, Edmonton Canada

“I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed the workshop and I learned so much. You really made the material come alive...and understanding it at the sensory level made all the difference for me. It was really helpful for me to witness my own Attachment patterns in a way I had not experienced before. I am also so grateful to you for choosing me to be in a demo. It was incredible. Being in a demo is like studying the Cliff Notes version of imprints and patterns! You are so gifted and generous in sharing your talent.”

L. Carroll

“Dr. Heller is a superb therapist and teacher. She has the ability to comprehend complex psychology ideas, see underlying patterns and deep implications, and then organize the information in an easily understood, warm-hearted way. I highly recommend her as a veritable foundation of knowledge in the fields of trauma resolution, attachment re- patterning and body-centered psychotherapy.”

John Citty
Co-founder of Colorado School of Energy Studies
Author of Dancing with Yin and Yang: Ancient Wisdom, Modern Psychotherapy and Randolph Stone’s Polarity Therapy

In just 8 weeks, you’ll gain a practical and proven approach that fosters a healthy relational space to help people heal
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FULL PAYMENT of $997